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Three surprising ways to supercharge your manifestation practice and create a better life… and a fun, easy way to accomplish all three!

Whether you’re new to the idea of creating a life you’d love and just starting your manifesting journey…

Or you’re seasoned and looking to expand your results and make even greater changes…

It can be easy to feel frustrated by the process of manifesting.

The question to ask yourself is, do you dwell on your thoughts of frustration, or do you embrace a growth mindset and look for opportunities to move forward from where you are, with what you have?
If you’re committed to the latter, and you want to amplify your manifesting results, I want to share with you 3 secret ingredients most people miss that can make your manifestation journey less frustrating and more fruitful!

Why manifesting doesn’t work

When it comes to pursuing our dreams, there are often two parts of us at work: The part that wants to move forward and accomplish our dreams and the part of us that argues for why we can’t or shouldn’t move forward.

The part of you that argues for why you can’t move forward to accomplish your dreams is your current “paradigm.”

A paradigm is the collection of limiting beliefs and patterned thoughts you’ve learned about who you are and what you do or do not deserve.

Your paradigms influence your thoughts. The power of your thoughts impacts the choices you make and actions you take. These behaviors, in turn, determine your results.

If you want to know how your paradigms are impacting you, you just have to look at the results you’re experiencing.

Are they constrictive or expansive? If your results feel limiting, then chances are, there is a paradigm at work against the results you wish to manifest.

If your current paradigm begins making a compelling case as to why you shouldn’t or can’t take action toward creating a life you love living, realize that your brain is prioritizing short-term comfort over the perceived danger of the unknown.

After all, no matter how amazing your wildest dreams may seem, to your subconscious mind, it’s still unknown!

When this happens, your next step is to empower the part of you that does desire to move forward to stand tall against the paradigm holding you back…

How?

These 3 secret, often-missed ingredients are a great way to begin supporting the part of you that’s ready to accomplish and experience great things. Try them and see how things change for you!

3 Secret Ingredients to manifest your dream life (that most people miss)

Secret Ingredient 1: Find Partners in Believing

The first step to more powerful manifesting? Other human beings!

Surrounding yourself with like-minded, aligned people is a powerfully effective way to amplify positive energy, find inspiration, and enhance your entire life, even while you’re still in the process of manifesting your dreams.

Making connections with other people who are on the same journey of transforming big dreams into reality can:

Help you stay motivated on your own manifesting journey
Keep you accountable when you’re having a hard time clarifying your vision or taking action
Inspire and encourage you to set bigger goals, bet on yourself, and invest in your future
Give you a sense of support and connection knowing you aren’t on this journey alone
Help you feel seen, heard, and understood as you journey to manifest your ideal life

I know what a powerful tool human connection can be when it comes to creating lives that we love. It’s one of the reasons I created events like DreamBuilder LIVE!

There is nothing more profound, more inspiring, and more encouraging than connecting with a group of like-minded, supportive individuals to fuel real-life dream building that extends far beyond the three days we spend together.

Opportunities like DreamBuilder LIVE are a fantastic way to take advantage of the first secret ingredient, especially if the people in your life aren’t supportive, don’t understand your vision, or even if you just want more connection and more support than you already have!

Here’s what a few of our DreamBuilder LIVE attendees had to say about the connections they built at the event:

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“I always have new dreams… we all do. When we achieve one goal or dream, there’s a new one that is birthed. I continue to go back [to DreamBuilder LIVE] so I have that kind of support, and there’s this kind of energy that is at that event that just inspires you to think bigger, to dream bigger, to be more confident and sustain that kind of energy as you then go out into your life and build the dream.” -Kevin C. (pictured)

“I was something of a goal-achiever, but a dream achiever is different… When [I was] dialing into a dream, I was becoming more energized and more alive. It isn’t just that you can discover a dream, or learn steps toward the dream, it’s the gentle guidance and support system. In this community, you are connected to people who are not only like-minded, but all across the globe! So anytime I needed a little dial-up in my energy, or mentorship, or a connection… [DreamBuilder LIVE] was there for me.” -Karie C.

“DreamBuilder LIVE gives me life, plugs me in, and keeps me on task for my personal growth and development… I love seeing everyone come alive sharing their dreams!” -Linda & Rich S. (pictured)

And, talk about finding partners in believing… at her very first DreamBuilder LIVE, Linda (from the testimonial above) envisioned finding the love of her life for the first time… and she brought her new partner, Rich to the very next DreamBuilder! They’ve been together ever since.

Whether you connect with the amazing, diverse, accepting group at an event like DreamBuilder LIVE, or you commit to creating your own community, finding partners in believing on your manifesting journey can supercharge your results and help you create the life of your dreams!

Secret Ingredient 2: Refresh First, Act Second

Think about your personal experience with manifesting, and ask yourself these questions:

When was the last time I refreshed and recalibrated the vision I am calling into my reality?
What was the last clear, tangible action step I took in support of my vision?

So many people fall into the trap of goal setting, using positive affirmations, and focusing on an outcome they want to manifest while missing the importance of staying on the green, growing edge of their vision.

Then, without a clear vision, the small steps they are able to take are often misaligned and ineffective.

In order to manifest the life of your dreams, you have to be tuned into what the life of your dreams actually looks like for you, right now.

Your vision for a life you’d love may need to be refreshed if:

The actionable steps you take don’t seem to lead to measurable results
You aren’t sure when you last spent time thinking about or imagining your vision
You’re relying on a dream you created a long time ago
You usually set a lot of one-time, short-term goals without the guidance of a larger vision
You don’t feel excited or passionate about your dreams
Manifesting feels like hard work and you rarely feel inspired about your future

The most important thing when it comes to manifesting the life of your dreams is your vision. And the only way your vision can inspire great results is if you are connected to it and know that it truly represents what you would love in the present moment.

Karrie, one of our repeat DreamBuilder LIVE attendees, is a great example of this concept.

Even though she had set a vision years before and had been working toward bringing her dreams into reality, she found that her results had stalled…

“I was growing at a very slow pace, and I had kinda stalled out a little bit.Through the DreamBuilder LIVE weekend, I created a brand new vision for my business, my life, and my time and money freedom, and I absolutely have had a quantum leap in all areas of my life! …Don’t think, do!” -Karrie M. (pictured)

Spending an immersive weekend at DreamBuilder LIVE gave Karrie the opportunity she needed to refresh her vision and reconnect with her dreams. She cast a new vision for herself- one that made her feel excited and inspired- and her results shifted immediately!

Having a calibrated vision led to positive changes throughout her entire life!

The same can be true for you. Check in with your vision often and refresh it as needed. Practice connecting with your calibrated vision for your future… THEN take action. Your results will speak for themselves!

Secret Ingredient 3: Work Your Manifesting Muscle

Manifesting the life of your dreams is a practice.

You won’t see the results you desire in your own life by spending one evening making a vision board, making a little bit of effort toward a specific goal, or saying a few positive statements every now and again.

Think of manifesting as a muscle– You need to use it and engage with it on a daily basis to change your life.

And staying committed to an ongoing practice can be challenging, especially as you navigate the ins and outs of your everyday life.

The most helpful tip I can give you to help you work your manifesting muscle and stay committed to the practice is this: Find what works for you and keep doing more of it.

After attending her first DreamBuilder LIVE in 2018, Lauren comes back every single year.

Why?

It works.

She realized that she’d already created a pattern of results in her life… and those results weren’t what she wanted them to be.

When she found something that worked for her- a catalyst to realizing her dreams and seeing real results that she loved in her life- she knew it made the most sense to keep doing more of what worked.

“I’d created a certain pattern of results before DreamBuilder LIVE… and then going back, and going back, and going back and really stretching those muscles that Mary will teach you, and her faculty, has absolutely been the catalyst.

DreamBuilder LIVE 2018 was the catalyst for everything that’s changed in my life, and that’s why I keep coming back. Because every time I come back, I grow. My business has doubled, year over year, and my results have expanded year over year, and it’s because I stay in the study.” – Lauren B. (pictured)

Bonus Ingredient: Celebrate!

I believe that making our own dreams come true is the BEST thing we can do to make a difference in the world.

Because when you create a life you love – that fills you with passion, inspiration, joy & love…

You become a shining light of hope, possibility & purpose to everyone around you.

Just imagine a world where everyone knows how to overcome their doubts & fears…

Align with their deepest & highest purpose in life…

And create lives they actually love!

How amazing of a world would that be?

So, every time you take a step in the direction of your dreams, celebrate it!

Every time you experience a win, bring something from your vision to life, or follow your heart to a more aligned, fulfilling life, celebrate it!

And, if you’d like to celebrate with me, and thousands of others who are creating lives they love, I encourage you to find out more about DreamBuilder LIVE… this could be your first step to a more confident, empowered, unstoppable you!

Click here and find out if DreamBuilder LIVE could be the catalyst you need to live your best life.