You Were Born to Be Happy, Not Perfect
So many of us strive for perfection in our daily lives.
In the media and all around us, we are continually exposed to images of the perfect body, the perfect family, the perfect career, the perfect life, and the perfect home.
The pressure to be perfect can sometimes feel overwhelming, and this can cause us to make an enormous effort to ensure that nobody finds out what’s really going on “behind the scenes” of our life.
Many of us spend a great deal of energy hiding what we perceive as our imperfections…
Are You Pretending Just So That Others Will Like You?
Have you ever found yourself pretending to be someone you’re not in front of someone you wanted to impress, only to have it backfire on you in the end?
So often, we pretend to be someone we’re not around people whose approval we crave, instead of being authentic.
We may stifle our true feelings, and not express ourselves fully, in order to gain love, respect or acceptance from friends, family, colleagues or clients — and sometimes, even total strangers.
Have you ever found yourself pretending to be someone you’re not in front of someone…
The Power of Writing Down Your Goals & Dreams
Do you write down your goals and dreams on a regular basis? Or do you simply think about them, without actually recording them anywhere?
As it turns out, your answer to this question has a HUGE impact on your odds of transforming whatever it is you desire to be, do, have or give into your reality.
Why is the power of writing down your goals so important?
Dr. Gail Matthews, a psychology professor at the Dominican University in California, recently studied the art and science of goal setting.
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We Live in a Giving Universe
Albert Einstein once said,
“The most important decision we make is whether we believe we live in a friendly or hostile Universe.”
Deep down, we have all made a decision about what kind of Universe we live in, and our life reflects that.
Do you believe that the Universe is for you, or against you?
This is an important question because the frequency of your thoughts determines the type of life you’re going to have, so it’s vital to keep your vibrational thoughts in alignment with the life you…
What a Conversation with Nelson Mandela Taught Me About Finding Purpose Amidst Suffering
What purpose does pain and suffering serve… and does it come into our lives because we deserve it on some level?
Many times, I’ve been asked why bad things happen to good people.
Whatever form the question takes, the answer is nearly always the same:
Not one of us deserves to suffer, but suffering can be a doorway that allows us to step into a fuller, freer, more expansive version of ourselves.
Who Is In Your Positive Circle of Influence?
Entrepreneur, author and motivational speaker, Jim Rohn, once said, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”
I invite you to pause for a moment to absorb the significance of that statement.
Next, think about the five people with whom you spend most of your time.
If you combine the annual income of those five people and divide it by five, chances are this is approximately the same amount of income that you earn.
Those of us who’ve studied the art and science of…
How to Overcome Failure & Bounceback to Even Greater Success
The 3 Steps To Turning Setbacks Into Stepping Stones
“Am I not cut out for this?”
There may have been times when you set your heart on something — when you took action, stepped outside of your comfort zone to achieve your dream…
And still didn’t experience the results you wanted.
Or maybe you experienced some success, only to slide back again.
That feeling of failure can be tough. I know this from personal experience!
And yet, one of the defining traits of highly successful people…
Self Improvement: The Top 3 Transformational Books to Have in Your Library
What personal growth and self-improvement books do you have in your library that inspire you and help you develop new highways of awareness, so that you can create a life you truly love living with greater speed and ease?
After investing the last 40+ years studying the invisible side of success, and the last 30+ years coaching tens of thousands of people in the art and science of transformation…
I’ve found that every single person wants to live a life that they love.
Not everyone may be able to articulate…
How to Deal with Negative Naysayers with Love & Compassion to Maintain Happiness
Do you have negative naysayers in your life — people who may be trying to discourage you from pursuing your goals and dreams?
How do you handle this type of negative criticism, so that you can maintain your happiness and positive thinking, and keep moving forward toward what it is that you would truly love?
Any time you seek to stretch beyond your comfort zone, and set a great goal for yourself or take some new kind of positive action toward a dream that you have, there will often be people in your…
Is It Selfish to Pursue Your Dreams?
Have you ever wondered if it’s selfish to pursue your dreams?
The answer to this question is, it depends! It CAN be selfish to pursue your dream, if your dream is only about you.
But most dreams, even the ones that may seem selfish to you, actually DO benefit the world around you!
Let me explain:
After investing the last 40+ years studying the spiritual side of success, and the last 30+ years coaching tens of thousands of people in the art and science of transformation, I’ve found that every…