Some women easily find love in a matter of WEEKS… while others struggle for months (or years). Why the difference? It comes down to simple, daily habits!
Did you know that 95% of the thoughts we think, and the actions we take, are repetitive?
You wake up in the morning and the autopilot kicks in: Brush teeth, use the restroom, go to work, so on and so on. The reason we have this autopilot is that these habitual thoughts help us live our lives without having to consciously overthink everything. Can you imagine having to plan EVERYTHING? It would be a nightmare!
But while the autopilot mode is incredibly useful to help us get on with our day, it’s also the reason why it’s so easy for us to get stuck in a rut. And it’s the reason some women find love quickly, while others struggle for months or even years.
See, some habits foster a good mindset and harmonious environment conducive to a great love life. While others can actually damage your chances of meeting a great guy, or ruin the connection when you do meet him!
Change Your Life Forever!
The good news is, you can easily insert a few new habits into your life that have a tremendous impact on your love life and your ability to meet great men.
Today, I’m going to share with you 3 tiny but powerful habits that can change your life forever.
Let’s dive right in…
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1. Create a gratitude practice
This is a simple habit that can completely alter your entire life. And the biggest area of impact is your love life, (great news)!
So how do you create a gratitude practice? Well you can start by writing down 5 things you’re grateful for every morning or evening.
Research has proven that beginning your day by thinking of things you’re grateful for increases happiness, self-esteem, reduces stress and even improves health! People who write gratitude statements have reported significantly better mental health and happier relationships with others.
Try this “5 things” gratitude practice starting tomorrow and watch in just a few weeks how it impacts your life and your relationships.
I guarantee this will be a powerful habit to help you see new opportunities in your love life. When you start to think of all the things in your gratitude practice, you’ll start seeing more and more things to be grateful for. And when you see more to be grateful for, the doors to incredible new opportunities open!
Whether that’s meeting someone entirely new, or realizing there’s potential for an old friend to become a future love interest.
2. Accept What Is, and Move Forward
When something happens that you don’t like and you know you can’t change what happened, it’s important to release it. Know that it’s done. Because in these situations, you have two choices: resist it or accept it.
As the saying goes, what you resist…persists! The feeling persists in you. So the fastest way to shift the pain from an unwanted experience is to feel the emotion, accept what happened, and move forward.
Look for the lesson in the undesirable situation, look for the good, and keep your focus on what’s next. When you do this, you can accept the emotion and pass it by instead of trying to change the unchangeable.
In your love life, this will help you let go of past resentment that could be holding you back from fully committing to a new relationship.
When you can let go of the resentment and fully embrace a new connection, you’ll find things progress a lot smoother and the whole thing just feels more natural as you can get out of your own head.
3. Ask yourself the question, “What part of me needs my love and acceptance right now?”
Ask yourself this question on a daily basis. One of the best and most profound ways to transform unwanted negative emotions, or thoughts is to surround them with love and acceptance. So much of our pain comes from not being willing or feeling able to love and accept ourselves.
So the practice of simply asking yourself: “What part of me needs my love and acceptance right now?” is a powerful tool we can make use of. Listening to the signals of your subconscious mind helps you understand your needs more, and this in turn begins to lift your self-esteem and help you feel better.
Lifting your self esteem is an important aspect of dating because when you have high self esteem and energy, people can sense it. High quality men pick up on it, they’re drawn to it and you’ll find they want to be around you.
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Now I don’t say it lightly when I tell you that these 3 habits can literally change your life forever and bring your dream man to you.
I’ve seen this happen time and time again with my clients who have successfully found the man of their dreams. I urge you to implement some of these, starting today!
And if you want to go even deeper…
If you want to radiate an energy that draws high quality men into your life like a magnet…
And if you want support living a life of gratitude and self love, I’d like to share a free tool with you:
It’s designed specifically to walk you through a process of self love and discovery. Bringing your vibration into alignment with a harmonious, loving relationship and enabling you to draw that to you with ease and flow.
Now I ask you to share with our community…
What small habits have you found had a positive impact on your life and your relationships?
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